Now that I have made the commitment to blogging here again, I have been pondering what this blog is actually about. To start with it was about “personal development”, “self-improvement” and “success” but I have never felt comfortable with any of these labels whatsoever.
I think I prefer to decide that this blog is about “Meaning”.
Why? Because that’s what we all need and crave in this life – Meaning – and big time.
It is my humble opinion that all of human activity, everything we do, is shaped and coloured by the fact that we are given life, wonder “why?”, get no answer and then have to die. This shaky sequence of events, facts and mystery is the foundation on which the entire human condition is built.
The thing that sets us apart from the animals, as far as we know, is that we hit the age of 2 or 3 and suddenly we wonder: “Why?”
It’s like – all this stuff exists … ok … got my head around that …
… but why?
Why does it exist? Why is my Mummy so tall? Why am I eating potatoes? Why does the dog have black hair with a white stripe on his nose?
In fact (can you tell I have a 2.5 year old kid?) it is very interesting to follow the train of thought of a toddler and discover in this, the entire problem of “being human” – we just don’t know what it all means. (Some people think they do of course, but they have no precise way to verify their beliefs about meaning so it cannot be denied that they are anything more than conjecture.)
Here’s a hypothetical discussion with my 2 year old:
Daddy what are you doing?
I am working.
Because we need money.
Because if we don’t have money then we can’t buy food or clothes or toys.
Because this is the system that is set up, it’s called Capitalism.
Well, truly, I don’t know why Capitalism exists, probably because of all the systems they have tried, it is the one that seems to work, albeit far from perfectly.
Dunno – maybe because it is the system that most honestly addresses and mirrors human nature.
Because humans are by nature very concerned with getting things, with survival and with the pursuit of pleasure.
Because that’s how our brains are wired up – we chase pleasure and avoid pain and do our damndest to survive.
Because that’s just what animals do and we are animals.
But why are we animals? Well … because we just are. Nobody knows the answer to that question.
Because when you ask the question, you’ll never get an answer.
You’ll never know why you never get an answer to this either. We do not truly know why we exist and we never get an answer when we ask the question. It’s just a big, big mystery.
I wonder if you started with any question whether it would always come down to the eternal question that every human must ask and never get an answer to: Why?
So I guess that’s what this blog is about – it’s about the eternal, fruitless search for Meaning (yes, with a capital M) and what to do about that.
It’s not really about trying to sell you on an answer – because there is none. Rather, this blog is about finding ideas and ways to cope with the absence of Meaning, and to connect with others along the way – so please, drop me a line and say G’day!